Hello again everyone! I know it has been a while since I have wrote a post but I thought that for my return I would write something that you might not expect to hear, especially coming from a person who makes his living helping people plan their finances. The topic of my post today is about spending some money on yourself!
First things first, I am not going against any of the great ideas presented in previous posts and comments, and I am not going to downplay the importance of saving for the future and for the unexpected. Nor will I denounce the need to pay down your debt as quickly as possible. I am actually writing about something that should be talked about alongside those ideas.
We live in a fast-paced, stressful world and spend so much time focusing on things like family, work, school, hobbies, the list is endless. These things can cause us quite a bit of stress and, combined with financial worries, it can almost make you feel helpless. As a financial advisor I see and hear stories like these every day. That is why I truly believe that part of any good budget has to be a little “me money”.
If you have been reading the past post and particularly the previous post (March budget) you can see that we from time to time have a large Miscellaneous or Date Night expenditures. I firmly believe that these expenditures, for example spending $225 to watch an NHL team that is mediocre at best (clearly I am not a Leafs fan) (rude-J). While perhaps they are a little bit much sometimes, they’re necessary for us to maintain a healthy balance. We often speak and focus so much on debt repayment and saving plans that we can forget about having some fun and relaxing. Everyone’s “me money” will be different; might be dinners out, tickets to sports or concerts, or shopping. Whatever it your “thing” may be make sure that you take some time, and money to enjoy it and relax.
Life is short and we never know what’s coming next, why not enjoy some of it!